Monday, April 30, 2018

39 Weeks

We made it to 39 weeks and could go into labor any time. The third trimester hasn’t been as bad as I expected. I started to feel more uncomfortable as I got bigger and bigger—particularly when the baby decided my ribs made a great place to keep its bottom. These discomforts have not been significant, though, and the first trimester was the hardest (at least so far). Nevertheless, I was still excited last Friday when the baby dropped. I got up that morning and things felt different: it was refreshing to have more space for my ribs and internal organs.

We’ve also had other hints that labor is approaching. The Braxton Hicks contractions are getting stronger and more frequent. A couple nights ago, I experienced a strong contraction that was probably real, but it was alone. Of course, none of these signs tell us anything we don’t already know: we’re close to the end of pregnancy and could go into labor within hours, within days, or not for another couple of weeks.

The past week has also brought a number of other changes. The third trimester discomforts have suddenly increased. I’m definitely glad they mostly waited so long to hit, but it’s been overwhelming to have so many all at once. Getting up to use the bathroom every couple of hours throughout the night has made sleep challenging. On the whole, though, I am doing quite well, and I am thankful to have the flexibility to rest during the day when I need to.

Things are more or less set up for the baby now, and we are feeling about as prepared as we can without knowing what to expect. It’s exciting—and crazy—to think that soon we’ll have a third member of the family. We sure are looking forward to meeting him or her!

Wednesday, April 18, 2018

Mom Visits




My mom had meetings in the Ripon/Modesto area two weekends in a row, so she decided to come up and visit us for a few days between meetings. She arrived Saturday evening and left this morning. We had a wonderful time visiting, going for long walks, and working on projects. She helped me wash and sort baby clothes, organize the rest of our baby stuff, and make snacks for after the baby is born. It was so nice to have her help and company for a few days.

We also had a quilt exchange. I gave her the blue and yellow quilt I made for her house and she gave us the baby blanket she made for baby Kerr. It is flannel and matches the flannel Mom used to make pajamas for the cousins at Christmas time.

Friday, April 6, 2018

Easter

 We enjoyed a delightful Easter celebration this year. It was the first time that Joshua's spring break fell during holy week and we took advantage of that by going to more of the services than usual. Joshua read at the Good Friday service, then we also attended the Easter Vigil and the Easter morning service. All of them were great and it was nice to experience the progression from one service to the next.


After the Easter morning service, we came home and had cinnamon rolls, deviled eggs, pineapple, and grapefruit juice for Easter brunch.


We enjoyed a quiet afternoon at home and continued our feasting with ham, Brussel sprouts, rolls, and mashed potatoes for dinner. I tried a new recipe for the ham that included a cherry sauce. It turned out well and we both liked the sauce with the ham.

We finished off the celebratory eating with angel food cake topped with strawberries and lemon curd.

Wednesday, April 4, 2018

Baby Gathering

Some of our friends from church wanted to have a small group of couples over for a baby gathering for baby Kerr. When word got out, the event quickly mushroomed and we ended up with quite the party. Chuck and Arlene were gracious and happy to accommodate the extra people; we appreciated their flexibility and willingness to host the party and open their home.


I made a blackberry pie for the occasion and got to use the pie box Dad made me for pie for the first time. I've used it before for cookies and such, but not for a pie.


Everyone brought something and we had a huge and delicious spread for lunch. We enjoyed visiting and eating a leisurely meal. 


Then we opened presents and had dessert.

Photo credit: Chuck

Photo credit: Arlene


A group shot of almost everyone who attended. Back row: Gary, Sally, Gretchen, Jeff, Joshua, Tamara, Brian, Dennis, Bonnie, Chuck, Andrew. Front row: Elizabeth, Shirley, me, Wendy, Sonia, Aubrianne, Agatha.


Everyone was generous and we received many great things for the baby, including this beautiful handmade knit blanket. It was a lot of fun to spend time together, and we felt blessed by everyone's excitement and generosity.

Thursday, March 29, 2018

A Woman Apostle in the New Testament?

The past decade or so has seen a flurry of interest in the possibility that a woman might have held church office in the New Testament. The passage in question:
"Salute A. and J., my kinsmen and my fellow-prisoners, who are of note among the apostles, who also were in Christ before me." (Rom. 16:7)
There are two relevant questions: first, is J. a man or a woman; second, is J. an apostle?

Man or Woman?

"Junius" is a well-known Roman surname. Marcus Junius Brutus, for example, is Julius Caesar's famous assassin. Unsurprisingly, it was also used as a personal name, although apparently not very frequently. For men, the personal version would have been "Junias"; for women, the personal name would have been "Junia." Furthermore, "Junias" (male) would also be the typical Greek way to make a nickname from other common male names like Junianus or Julilius (in the same way that "Silas" is a nickname for Silvanus, for example). Finally, it was common practice for slaves -- who were often freed in the ancient world -- to take the surname of their previous master as a personal name upon their release. Freed slaves formerly belonging to the house Junius would commonly be named "Junias" if male or "Junia" if female.

So we have two names: "Junias," a male personal name and nickname for a few different male personal names, and "Junia," a female personal name.

Because of the way the Greek language works, the form of words change when they are used in different contexts. We sometimes do this in English: in the present I "drink" tea, but in the past I "drank" tea. Greek does this constantly. One would say that "Junia greets you" but that "you greet Junian." It's a small but helpful difference that is a great feature of the Greek language (just as it's useful to be able to distinguish between "drink" and "drank" in English).

The problem is that when Junias and Junia are the ones being saluted, you spell their names the same: there is no way to differentiate between "salute Junian" (i.e. Junias the man) and "salute Junian" (i.e. Junia the woman). In Romans 16:7, Paul says to "salute Junian." Is he talking about a man or a woman? There's simply no way to tell.

You will sometimes hear that we have no records from antiquity of the male name "Junias" being used. This is true, but it is also misleading. We have almost no records from antiquity of either personal form -- Junias or Junia -- being used. It so happens that the first century documents that have survived include just one cases of the latter and one ambiguous case (viz., Romans 16:7).

Verdict: there is no way to tell whether the "Junian" Paul mentions is male or female.

Apostle or Not?

The second question is whether Paul is even calling J. an apostle. In the KJV, there is a nice ambiguity in the passage: J. is "of note among the apostles." In English, this could mean that J. is one of the apostles and in fact a noteworthy one; it could also mean that J. is someone who the apostles see as noteworthy. "My blog is of note among the blogs" means something rather different than "my blog is of note among fine readers." For example, in Romans 2:24, Paul says that the name of God is blasphemed among the nations: the name of God is not one of the nations, but rather is an object of blasphemy to them. If you look up the word translated "among" in a Greek dictionary, you will see that it will list both possible meanings. Thus, if this were the end of the story, we would have to conclude this question as we did the first: it is perfectly ambiguous, so there is simply no way to tell.

But this is not the end of the story. The word translated "notable" (ἐπίσημος) has two broad meanings, one comparative (more well known than) and one elative (well known to). If you do a systematic study of how this word is used, it turns out that the Greeks usually made a distinction between these two meanings based on what comes afterward: is what comes afterward is a genitive form (which means here a comparison) or a dative form (which means here "to"). In this passage, the dative is used: A. and J. are well known to the apostles. There is a perfect grammatical parallel in Psalm 2:6, in which the Jews are "a spectacle among the gentiles." The grammatical forms are exactly the same, and the words are even identical (ἐπίσημος can be translated "notable" or "spectacle") except the last word (apostles/gentiles). The Jews, of course, are not gentiles; rather, they are well known (in a negative sense) to the gentiles. The passage in Romans means the same thing: A. and J. are not apostles; rather, they are well known (in a positive sense) to the apostles.

Verdict: whether J. is a man or woman, Paul is distinguishing J. from the apostles, not including J. among the apostles.

Wednesday, March 14, 2018

Birthday Celebrations Continue

 The birthday celebrations continued this weekend with a birthday dinner hosted by one of our friends in the philosophy department. Lauren organized getting together four couples for a birthday dinner on Sunday. She and Jeff hosted at their house and took care of the main part of dinner; the rest of us signed up to bring sides and drinks. The food was delicious and it was fun to all get together for a little dinner party. We sat around visiting and played a round of Codenames, then had chocolate cake with peanut butter frosting for dessert. Lauren couldn't find her regular birthday candles but found number candles, so I ended up celebrating my 29th birthday, not a bad age.

Monday was my actual birthday and Joshua brought me flowers and made me delicious breakfast burritos for birthday dinner. We finished off the evening with another slice of the cake from last night that Lauren had sent home with us. It was a lovely and well-celebrated birthday.

Saturday, March 10, 2018

Family Visit

 Michelle, ever the creator of crazy schemes, suggested coming up to visit us while I was still pregnant. Once she and Mom decided to make the trip with her three kids, Dad decided he wanted to come too. Then, since they had to take the van anyway, they invited Heather and her kids to come and of course they wanted to too. So we ended up having 10 visitors this week for a full house and lots of fun.


They arrived Monday evening, just after dinner. Everyone was shocked by my belly and said I should have sent more pictures to prepare them.



Tuesday morning, and throughout the visit, we had fun feeling the baby moving. Some of the movements were pretty impressive.



We went over to Alton Baker park for a late morning walk by the river. It was a beautiful day, although still a bit chilly when the wind blew.





Back at the house, we had lunch and made blackberry pie.

Dad, Joshua, and the boys went to the woodworking store and Goodwill, then Mom, Michelle, Micah, and I went to Fred Meyers. Joshua put the two tables next to each other and we managed to all squeeze around so we could eat dinner together.


 
The next morning, Joshua and the kids had fun trying out the new game Micah found during their outing Tuesday afternoon. This was one of many games during the visit; Kingdomino was another favorite.


We took a short hike up Skinner's Butte after lunch. The walk was pretty.


The group at the top.




Unfortunately, the top of the butte was a bit disappointing because the view wasn't great and there were a bunch of people smoking in their cars, but the hike overall was a good one.


Sisters and babies at the top of the butte.




Wednesday night we had birthday dinner for Mom, me, and Evan. Then we had delicious chocolate cake with ice cream and strawberries. We each had a section of candles to blow out.







Thursday morning everyone headed back to California, but not before one last squeeze; this time into the bathroom for a tooth brushing party. It was a lot of people for our duplex, but we had a great time together.

Friday, February 23, 2018

Grapefruit Cake

I was reading my Taste of Home magazine and found a recipe for grapefruit cake. Since we still have a few delicious ruby red grapefruits from my parents' tree, I couldn't resist giving the recipe a try. It turned out great and we both liked it. The cake was on the dense side, similar in consistency to a pound cake, and was quite moist. The grapefruit flavor came through well and made the whole thing not too sweet. Plus, it looked pretty with the grapefruit sections on top.


Grapefruit Yogurt Cake

1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
2 tsp baking powder
1/4 tsp salt
3 large eggs
1 cup fat-free plain yogurt
1/3 cup sugar
5 T grated grapefruit zest
1/4 cup agave nectar or honey
1/2 tsp vanilla extract
1/4 cup oil

Optional Glaze and Topping

1/2 cup confectioners' sugar
2 to 3 tsp grapefruit juice
Grapefruit sections
Fresh mint leaves

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Whisk together flour, baking powder, and salt. Combine next seven ingredients. Gradually stir flour mixture into the yogurt mixture, then pour into a 9-in. round baking pan coated with cooking spray. Bake until toothpick inserted in center of cake comes out clean, 25-30 minutes. Cool.

For glaze, mix confectioners' sugar with enough grapefruit juice to reach desired consistency; drizzle glaze over top, allowing some to flow over sides. Top the cake with grapefruit sections and fresh mint leaves.

Thursday, February 22, 2018

Snow



After a mild past few weeks with a number of spring-like days, winter is back in full force. Sunday morning we had snow flurries. They didn't stick much, but there was a little bit that collected on the ground. It stayed cold all week with temperatures below freezing every night.




Then this morning we woke up to snow! It still wasn't a lot, but enough to cover the ground and look pretty. It was still gently falling when we got up and was so peaceful and beautiful.



It didn't last long though. It was warm enough that by late afternoon most of the snow had melted and there were just a few spots remaining.

Sunday, February 18, 2018

Valentine's Day

 

I was excited that Joshua didn't have to be at school until later on Wednesday, so we were able to start the day with pink heart-shaped pancakes for breakfast. I made a few little pancakes for the baby too.


We were expecting to go to our childbirth class in the evening, but last week the class voted to take a week off for Valentine's Day, so we were able to go out to dinner instead. We went to Izakaya Meiji, which is a fun and unique restaurant that serves Japanese small plates. The food is great, and it's fun to try a number of different dishes during the meal, including things like beef tongue, octopus, nori-wrapped rice balls, and shittake mushrooms.


We finished the day with chocolate creme pie topped with raspberries and lemon whipped cream while playing a game together.

Monday, February 5, 2018

Entering the Third Trimester



We entered the third trimester today, so I thought it would be a good time to look back at the pregnancy so far.


The first trimester was a bit of a roller coaster. The usual symptoms hit with a flood of hormones, tiredness, and morning sickness. Being tired all the time was probably the first symptom I noticed. The morning sickness soon followed, but thankfully seemed relatively mild. I felt unsettled all the time, but only felt sick sometimes and only threw up twice. I actually gained weight during the weeks I was most nauseated because I felt badly if I allowed myself to get hungry, so I tried to keep a little food in my stomach all the time. I didn’t have any unusual food cravings, but have developed a surprising aversion to shrimp. I was certainly glad not to be working at the bakery anymore where I’d be on feet all day and smelling all kinds of smells! Working at home with a flexible schedule that allowed me to take breaks as needed was wonderful.

It was really strange at first and hard to wrap my head around the fact that we were pregnant. It felt more like a foreign invasion releasing a bunch of hormones in my body and triggering symptoms that I couldn’t control. It was hard to think of it as a baby, let alone our baby. Gradually that shifted, but it took awhile. I’m still getting used to the idea, although feeling the baby moving around has made a big difference.

I was also frustrated by all the negative comments we received. In pregnancy books, apps, and conversations with others, we got a lot of negative remarks. Things like “you probably feel exhausted, but this just gets worse once the baby comes” and “better learn to deal with stress because once the baby’s born it’s going to get worse.” I’m sure all these sorts of things are true, but it’s just been an overwhelming amount of negative with very little positive. 

 The second trimester brought welcome relief where I started to feel more like myself again and some days even felt normal. As the weeks passed and my belly grew, I started having to make adjustments like sleeping with an extra pillow, modifying my workouts, and having to stand up and stretch more often because my ribs having already started feeling uncomfortably pressured. It’s strange to eat relatively well and exercise regularly, but still gain weight.


At 19 weeks, we had our ultrasound and got to see the baby for the first time. It was incredible. The detail of ultrasounds now is unbelievable; we were able to see things like the valves of the heart and everything. It was amazing. That was a big highlight for us. After the ultrasound, we celebrated by having pizza for lunch. Another highlight was finally feeling the baby move. It took a long time before I was confident I was feeling the baby since there were so many other sensations occurring. But by 24 weeks I was feeling the baby move a lot and Joshua had felt it moving too. Now, we feel the baby moving regularly.

Overall, the pregnancy has been pretty uneventful so far with expected symptoms and everything looking normal at all our checkups. As we move into the third trimester, we’ve just started our childbirth class and are beginning to think about labor and delivery. It’s exciting to move into this final trimester and prepare to meet our baby. It’s been a whole new experience so far and I’m sure that will continue, but we are excited about this new phase of our lives.

Sunday, February 4, 2018

Multigrain Loaf


Joshua and I got a cook book from my current favorite show for Christmas this year, so I was excited to try out one of the recipes this weekend. I decided to make a multigrain loaf. I had some difficulty with the kneading because it was a really stiff dough and was worried that it might not be edible. Thankfully, it tasted great. The texture was a bit dense, but it ended up rising and wasn't bad at all. Certainly a loaf I'd like to try again. Fresh bread, yum.